On its August cover, Vogue featured It couple Gigi Hadid and Zayn Malik. The mag is clearly a fan of the superstars as both have been featured in its pages before. But this go-round, Vogue kind of stepped in it by calling the pair “gender-fluid” since neither identify as such. What the mag meant to showcase was the fact that the couple shares clothes and shops each other’s closet.
This wardrobe sharing is actually nothing new. The French, as in most cases, did it first. Vogue contributor Marina Khorosh experienced it firsthand. While in grad school in Paris, Marina’s new boyfriend spent the night at her place and needed to find something fresh to wear the next morning.
“With the day’s first lecture only 40 minutes away, he walked over to my tiny closet, evaluated its components, and asked me if he could borrow something to wear. Barely waiting for my stupefied nod of consent, he reached for my beloved oversize black Helmut Lang blazer, paired it with his own T-shirt and slim-cut jeans from the night before, and pronounced himself ready to roll.”
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Calvin Klein Fall 2017; Images: Imaxtree
As crazy as it may seem that your boyfriend would want to raid your closet, girlfriends have been pilfering their boyfriends’ stashes for years now. Gigi’s BFF Kendall Jenner is a real pro at borrowing from the boys (even though she technically doesn’t have a SO right now). She’s been captured sporting a tie-dye Balenciaga Homme sweatshirt with a miniskirt and layering a jacket from ASOS’ men’s department during New York Fashion Week. Kendall even divulged on her app that she’s gotten into the habit of shopping in the men’s sections. Oh, and that ruffled dress Beyoncé rocked in that Instagram post cradling her twins? Yup, you guessed it, it’s from a menswear line (Palomo Spain, to be exact).
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Rachel Comey Spring 2017; Images: Imaxtree
Designers have been promoting androgyny on the runway for some time now. Rachel Comey had male models outfitted in unisex looks as part of her Spring 2017 ready-to-wear collection. Raf Simons had us seeing double during his Calvin Klein Fall 2017 presentation as he sent out almost mirror looks on the girls and guys. And Wolk Morais had male and female models wear the same exact suit (minus an extra button or two) down the runway at its Fall 2017 show.
There are even whole labels committed to gender-neutral dressing. Fast fashion leader H&M has a section on its website dedicated to it. Denim label AGOLDE recently debuted its latest collection with A$AP Ferg that featured only gender-neutral fashion. Zara launched its first genderless clothing line in March. And Alexander Wang’s latest athleisure collaboration with Adidas features all unisex styles.
If you and your SO are ready to jump on the clothes-swapping bandwagon, check out the slideshow below for 21 gender-neutral fashion picks that make sharing a cinch.
Share Clothes With SO
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Brave Soul
Not all guys are willing to wear millennial pink, but this long jacket is tough enough for your man and trendy enough for you.
Long Line Zip Through Jacket, $35.50 at ASOS
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COS
Guys can slip this cowl neck on over jeans; girls can combine it with a pleated midi skirt and flats, if they're in the mood.
Cowl-Neck Oversized Jumper, $99 at COS
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Mango
If your SO favors a slim fit when it comes to suits, you're in luck. Borrow this emerald blazer from his closet and wear it open over a dark tee and jeans.
Slim-Fit Unstructured Cotton Blazer, $67.99 at Mango
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RARELY
This varsity sweatshirt will play for any team or gender.
Isla de Capri, $109 at Lisa Says Gah
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H&M
Do as the French do and pick up his-and-hers pants.
Conscious Uni Jean 3, $29.99 at H&M
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Heron Preston
Kendall Jenner has been spotted sporting Heron Preston and TBH, we can't say for sure if she was wearing the men's or women's version. We're going with the men's here for some added breathing room.
Black Heron T-Shirt, $240 at SSENSE
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RVCA
Menswear-fit button-downs look just as good on the fairer sex.
Cluster Button Up, $55 at Wildfang
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Brookes Boswell
This sleek hat looks great on everyone.
Canna in Alabaster, $143.99 at Need Supply Co.
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BDG
On women, this colorblock hoodie will read a bit baggy. On men, it will seem a bit more streamlined.
Colorblock Drawstring Hoodie Sweatshirt, $89 at Urban Outfitters
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FAAN
Because everyone needs a chill short-sleeve shirt that's not a tee.
Pocket Top, $230 at FAAN
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Opening Ceremony
Since belts are always adjustable, they're ideal for sharing with your partner.
Canvas Belt, $25 at Opening Ceremony
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Baggu
Backpacks are universal. And so is this fawn color.
School Backpack in Fawn, $58 at Need Supply Co.
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J.Crew
With its drawstring waist, these preppy shorts can be adjusted depending on your waist size.
Dock Short in Stretch Chino, $45 at J.Crew
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Genuine People
When your man borrows this trench, he'll probably loosen up the cuffs. Of course, you'll tighten them back up when it's your turn.
Oversized Wrap Trench Coat, $125.99 at Genuine People
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VEEA
Thanks to Alexander McQueen, skulls are super stylish for both men and women.
Skull in Ivory, $92 at VEEA
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Esprit by Opening Ceremony
Opening Ceremony is one of those brands that loves a good unisex collab. Its Esprit collection is full of sharable separates.
Esprit Logo Hoodie, $110 at Opening Ceremony
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Mango
While women's polos are nice, the men's versions always seem to have a bit more edge.
Fine-Knit Print Polo Shirt, $39.99 at Mango
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The Horse
Sure, we uncovered this oversized watch in the women's section, but with its clean lines and neutral color story, it can keep time for both sexes.
Silver/ Tan Band Watch, $119 at Need Supply Co.
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AGOLDE x A$AP Ferg
A$AP Ferg's latest collection is completely gender-neutral. This army jacket's fit and rose-focused pattern will appeal to all.
Military Jacket in Drab, $188 at AGOLDE
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Zara
A great way to get closer at the beginning of your relationship is by sharing clothes with a loving (tongue-in-cheek) message.
Studio Sweatshirt, $39.90 at Zara
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Zara
Instead of a denim jacket this fall, try layering a distressed denim vest over a hoodie to keep you and your SO warm.
Basic Denim Waistcoat, $39.90 at Zara